Mind in words…
A crack at understanding the meaning of what goes in my mindArchive for Life
Dreams…till when can they be just dreams
Dream baby dream…make them turn ti reality and see them enact themselves on this stage of life
That’s whats keeping my mind occupied nowadays. Its that restlessness inside me thats got to find a way to turn into something which i can call my own. How many times in the day do i think about the pain im going thru listening to what others want me to do ? Its amazing how people control the will of others and they let them …Im also one of those creatures who right now doesnt have a will of his own but im one of them trying to break out of the shackles of inhibitions and create my own identity on the face of this earth.
I’ll be foolish to say that i dont care about the consequences but im ready to face them in whatever form they confront me with.
I want to create something which i can call my own . Just passionately thinking about this and believing in this has transformed my life completely. I am gonna take a plunge and i wud love everyone to support me but im not counting on them to help me. I do care about people around me and their feelings too. But if in the process of achieving what i want , i hurt them i am upfront sorry for it. Coz i want an identity , i want to prove beyond doubt to everyone on the face of this earth that im capable and i mean every word i say .
Cryptic , no its very simple to decipher. Its no Da vinci’s Code.
Believe in me and ill prove you right.
AB
Relationship management
This thought just struck me while i was discussing some relationship matters with someone close to me. It so happened that while we were discussing expectations in a relationship, it struck that what happens if for one of them (say X), this is their first relationship and for the other person (say Y) it is > 1. Another caveat here….what if the Y has had only bitter endings in the previous relationships??
This is just a thought from the point of view of expectations….
It might happen that X would have expectations of this relationship to be a fairy tale one with everything being perfect. NO fights , no arguments etc etc. A perfect relationship so to say (if there’s any like that)
and Y would definitely question this theory of a perfect relationship coz he would be starting off this new relationship from a base which is completely bitter and so to say close to level 0 while X would want it to be base (infinity)…..
So, while Y would expect a base some what higher than 0 (obviously not infinity) , X would expect nothing short of base infinity (or utopia so to say)
So, the only way this relationship would function properly is when the expectation mismatch is eliminated.In a way, there’s a need to settle down to 0+infinity divided by 2 or somewhere in the middle.
Y speak: There’s nothing like a perfect relationship with no fights , no arguments …and if there is one like this its missing on the imperfections which add spice to a relationship. But in case the dose of spice increases then the taste of the dish is lost
